Problems between individuals and groups come up every day. They can be resolved in a variety of was, including debate, compromise, the flip of a coin, an outside mediator or even war. Of course, everyone hopes for a resolution that is both peaceful and acceptable to both sides. Therefore, when two parties are trying to resolve a problem, it is important that they keep the following points in mind.

First, each side should remember that the other has valid reasons for its beliefs. It is important to try to understand the other side of the argument before trying to persuade someone to change his mind. Not only is one more likely to be successful if he understands the other party, but he also shows respect for the other’s beliefs. Second, every effort should be made to separate logical arguments from emotional ones. Often our emotions can prevent us from seeing the best possible resolution. Finally, both parties should remember the value of compromise and not try to insist on complete acceptance of their own views. If one side forces its views on the other without making any concessions, it is bound to lead to resentment.

The above are some of the most important things to keep in mind when trying to resolve a problem. Above all, both parties should negotiate in good faith and come prepared to listen to the other side. Only when a resolution takes the feelings of both parties into consideration is it truly successful.